2014 was a rough year but 2015 will be what you make it. So decide that you've had enough of cr@p and you're ready to take the yuck and chuck it so 2015 will be the year Ss finds out how awesome she is.
You've been with your H since you were 19, right, freshly emerging from your appalling childhood?
Guess what, this time is the gift you've been given to grow into your own woman. To find out what makes your engine rev when you get to drive the bus solo.
IMO you spend way too much time with him. How can you detach when he shows up for most of your GAL? What can you do to separate more deeply from him?
HUGS, my dear, this is a low. Start cranking up that hill again, the view is much nicer from the top.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15