My H has been using joint funds to pay for his new residence since he moved out over a year ago. Would I be entitled to half of that back when we finalize the settlement?? It's a lot of money. I guess that is a question for my L.
I have the same understanding as Maybell. My H is spending a small fortune on his apartment and it's hard not to resent that half of that is mine. I did have a L tell me that if he were wasting marital assets on the A, then that would come into play in the settlement. But not his own living expenses. Definitely something to talk to your L about.