May your new year be

[Ggrass]

Yeah, it's funny how and when these issues come up.

I'm my case xh was a drinker, but h was the complete opposite.
Xh was loud temper tanties blown over in mins, h was a blow up followed by days of being unable to speak to him because he would be triggered.

You had to be super careful, until you have placated h enough. You had to take punishment. This was not a part of the early r. He needed time to cool, which is ok IMHO and process.

Later the whole process became far more abusive, punishment, not being able to speak, being told I was nasty for being so scard to speak I was mute. Doing the whole settlement is more than just about the "stuff" it my way of actually coming to grips with how much I did contribute. With actuall evidence h says does not exist.
It's about standing up for gg and the slur of dishonesty and laziness.

I was seeing ic, but I ran out waiting till I can have another round of sessions.