As far as how I'm doing now, I'm actually doing great. About 4 days before she revealed the A, a switch in my heart flipped. I was at peace with a D, even excited about a new future. Now I'm wondering if I even want to go back to her IF she wanted to reconcile.
She told me today that her OM is now trying to reconcile with his W.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23