Just a little up date... I'm continuing my work on detaching, and trying to understand my boundaries better. I think that yesterday might have been a win for me. After being up and having a great morning with my D8 and D5, I got a call from my best friend asking if I wanted to take the kids skating with him and his S. I jumped at the opportunity, and as we were getting ready to walk out the door my W finally woke up. I was pleasant offered for her to come with, but when she didn't say yes I simply said good bye and off we went.
Later during the afternoon when she tried to bring up the OM, I simply and kindly dismissed the conversation, and continued playing video games with D8. We had a blast and W left to go grocery shopping. Honestly I didn't think twice about her leaving.
Later at night my W actually spent some time with D5 and put her to bed. Unfortunately D5 was wired, little kids I wish I could bottle up that energy, so I went in to say good night. D5 and I proceeded to sing, laugh at jokes she was making, and then read a couple stories. It was simply a great time, and I have not laughed like that in a while! Later when I put D8 to bed she told me that she had had a great day. I did have some trouble with her pursuits about splitting things and moving which I listed above in my other posts. But I went to bed last night really feeling like it was a good day. Just thought I would share.
Oh and I also took a huge step in GAL, today I registered for class’s so I can go back to get my nursing degree. SCARY! But feels good too!
M:34 W:34 D:8 D:5 M:10 T:15 BD: 10/10/14 D filed: 10/21/14 PA/EA:09/2013 EA:09/2014 - on going (online)
