I TOTALLY understand how you are feeling because I have been in the exact same boat and oddly enough, I found out on NYE also, that X-a$$ had been in an A. Of course, in my sitch, X-a$$ is still denying it is an A, but whatever...he's a liar. I say all this to say that I empathize with you and am praying for you and sending positive thoughts your way. Try to do something to get your mind off of it and relax...if that is possible. Hang in there, bud!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids