My H has never apologised for having an A. I dont think he feels sorry about it. He has apologised for lying to me and for the hurt caused. And he genuinely seems upset and regretful for those areas. But the actual A - and the betrayal of our vows etc...no, he hasn't ever apologised for that.

But I guess he may well still be in fog and that could change. Like your W, my H was always very honest before, and very proud that he had always been faithful. It really seemed to matter a lot to him. But A's can make the most surprising people become very wayward & behave so out of character.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus