Hi, Im new to the site and I would be grateful if somebody has any advice or ideas for me. I've been married to my wife for 2 years now. The first year was perfect for both of us. Shortly after our first anniversary I started to change and became very anxious and I started acting possessive (calling her nonstop asking a million questions etc). Which of course was no good and this where our problems started. For the last 6 months she had threatened leaving about 3-4 times but I was always able to convince her I would change. The last time she threatened I finally started therapy and it has helped me so much. But 2 weeks ago I did the nonstop calling thing because I needed the car and when she got back she said that was it and its over.
At first she wanted me to leave within the week and we fought quite a bit the first few days. But I stepped back, thought it over and then apologized to her. I told her that I accepted her decision and that I hope we could remain friends. She accepted and said I could stay as long as I need to.
So this past week has been fine, we went to the mall and out to dinner twice this week (both times she invited me). We have even been texting and joking quite a bit more then before. But she said to me that she doesnt love me anymore and to not get confused.
I have not pleaded or begged her at all about getting back together. I always act confident and happy in front of her. I sleep on the couch. I know about the NC rule but we live in the same house.
Should I go MIA a few days and stay in a motel to see if she misses me? When we joke around I still see that look in her eye when she smiles at me so I don't think she hates me but she says she doesn't love me at all anymore.
I know that was very long, thank you for reading and I appreciate any advice.
