Is this how you handled things with her before, guilty until proven innocent?
How has she created your uncomfortableness? It seems like your mind is doing a pretty good job of that.
"and I generally have fallen into the trap of being the one who dealt with the conflicts. I just don't think I want to do it for this particular situation......"
Why? This has to do with the rest of your life. It's easy to stand on the sidelines and watch things happen and then when it doesn't go as we would have liked, say "Well, I could see that coming. I would have done it much differently and things would be better now." Keeps us innocent and smelling like a rose. Also keeps our ego intact. Been there, done that.
What kinds of traps have you fallen into? Explain that more because it seems a bit different from what I remember you saying in the past.
I'm not sure your second sentence is 100% true. I think you're trying to control an outcome. See smelling like a rose above.
What say you?
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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
