Morning all. The advice at the end if this update is to detach, I know that....

But as it is I'm sat in a car park having finished all of my errands but not able to go home because its the wife's turn with the kids and there is an expectation I make myself scarce. Normally that would be GAL but to be honest Christmas and injury has tapped out a lot of my usual options and I forgot to pickup a book.

This blows...

Its a cold and rainy day here and what I want is to be home with my family having a nice day with them all.

Life got hard and we lost our sense of fun, that's what's really been missing from my marriage warmth and fun. Now, and only because of her leaving, I know why we lost it but damned if I know how to get it back.

Oh well.

Onward as HP says.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress