Inbetween Land

[HPoirot]

Hello Faith. You of course should comfort and protect your kids. Yes he will have to talk to your D about the baby. When he's talking to you and trying to push your buttons... you've got to stay strong and not fight him. Just validate what he says without agreeing... "I see how you could feel that way about what happened." If it's too much... "You've given me a lot to think about. Please give me some time to process this and let's talk more tomorrow/tonight/whenever." You can also tell him that you may not answer the phone as you are busy so he should leave VMs. That will give you time to think of responses.