U-turn, I remember the same type of Convo at my house 14 months ago now. It was like my STBXW was invaded by the bodysnatchers and wasn't herself anymore. The truth is she hadn't been herself for a while before that and I just refused to see. Perhaps some time and distance will help. Keep working on yourself. No matter what comes next, that is what saves you.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14