So I had another interesting interaction with W today when she came to pick up the kids to go back to hers.. Had a bit of a conversation as we normally do at pick up/drop off (at least the communication is there), and I mentioned that I was going to get a haircut and heading out to lunch.. The conversation went like this:
Me: Will probably be able to get a haircut and then out for lunch today..
W: A haircut and lunch??.. Sounds nice..
M: Yeah, I need one and I'm hungry too!!..
W: So who is she LMW??..
M: Pardon??..
W: Who is the woman you are having lunch with??..
M: I think that is delving a little too much in to my personal life asking questions like that.. You have asked me to respect your life, so I would ask you to respect mine in return..
W: Whatever, I don't give a f&*k anyway..
I then changed the subject to something about the kids and what we had been doing..
Keep in mind, there was no date or woman for that matter.. I was just keeping things "mysterious".. I was merely hungry and getting a bite to eat close by my hairdresser..
I coloured my hair after I got back to my place to cover up the greys, so I'm expecting a response to that too when I pick up the kids next week.. The last couple of interactions have certainly got some for of response out of her..
Question still is, is it the right path??.. I know it is said to "do what works", but I'm not 100% sure whether this is working in the way I want.. I'm finally getting reactions that although not good, they aren't particularly bad either.. Is this typical of WAW behaviour and stick to it, or find another path??..
I'm starting to genuinely feel like I am detaching now, and although it hasn't been an overnight flick of the switch, it IS happening.. She genuinely isn't on my mind 24/7 (but who knows with the rollercoaster).. I'm definitely starting to see things in a different light..
Last edited by LoveMyW; 01/03/1505:35 AM.
Me:35 W:31 S6 + S9 T: 10 years M: 7 years BD: 7/2014 S: 8/2014 W has new BF: 12/2014 Still fighting the good fight!!..