I just blocked him on facebook - I already unfriended him but I'd periodically still look at his profile and see what was publicly viewable. Don't want to be tempted anymore. After I blocked him the confirmation from facebook said "we're sorry you've had this experience." Thank you, facebook!!
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final