I am sorta like you in the sense that I have found out there are a few interested Females out there from what I have been told that would like to meet for dinner. This info has come to me through messages from friends who know just that I am currently S. So I know I will be fine if my W gets her wish.
While I find it flattering and all. I told my friends at this moment I am standing for my M but you never know what the future holds.
I am also working through some resentment issues at the moment but it is not making me want to do what my W is doing.
Hang tough and I hope your resentment subsides. Sandi advice is very good on this IMO.
Sandi, I couldn't agree more with your comment about WAS thinking it is easier to start over. I feel that is what my W thinks and it stinks because it doesn't have to be that way. Especially, if LBS decides to put in the work to allow the WAS the opportunity to see that it might not be "more of the same" if the changes stick.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
