I believe most WAS thinks it is so much easier to have a new relationship than putting in the hard work to restore the old one.
This I see is true. In our last hard R talk... my W mentioned that if she would "jump back into our M" that it would so HARD. I agreed with her... that we would have to work. She said she didn't want to. Interesting whenever we R talk she brings up fixing the M or MC but then always dismisses it.
So no blue pill for you Rzr! We are red pill!
Ditto. My H told me early in our sitch, in the phase I lovingly refer to as "the month of rage" that it would be easier to get divorced than it would be to fix the marriage." Banner moment.
Pass all the pills!
PS - RZr - good idea with staying away from potential ow.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
