I believe most WAS thinks it is so much easier to have a new relationship than putting in the hard work to restore the old one.
This I see is true. In our last hard R talk... my W mentioned that if she would "jump back into our M" that it would so HARD. I agreed with her... that we would have to work. She said she didn't want to. Interesting whenever we R talk she brings up fixing the M or MC but then always dismisses it.
So no blue pill for you Rzr! We are red pill!
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014