Originally Posted By: sandi2

I believe most WAS thinks it is so much easier to have a new relationship than putting in the hard work to restore the old one.



This I see is true. In our last hard R talk... my W mentioned that if she would "jump back into our M" that it would so HARD. I agreed with her... that we would have to work. She said she didn't want to. Interesting whenever we R talk she brings up fixing the M or MC but then always dismisses it.

So no blue pill for you Rzr! We are red pill!


Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014