Great question (read -- 'forgiving her?'). Based on how I have been feeling forgiveness hasn't been too high on my list of things to do. You know, its not all about what she's doing in terms of awfulness to my family and another, it is more than that...
She really changed over (at least) the last year as she went through her detachment. She's obsessed with the 'Bravo' channel now, which I can't watch because it is so moronic, and she spent a lot of time on social media, like 'Facebook'. It was like she was becoming overwhelmed with material lifestyles and everything that goes with that. The 'Facebook' thing bothers me because one can look at other people's lives and think (that) those 'other people' are living perfectly because Facebook is a fantasy. No one ever posts "...just had a huge blowout with my husband about his drinking problem then got in a fight with fifteen year child old about birth control".
It is all bullsh*t and noise and I just dealt with it because "she's my wife and I love her" (or felt that way at the time). Added that all of the was distracting her from being the super mother she was before. For the last year it was like she couldn't wait to put our daughter in the high chair, in front of the television, so she (wife) could go into our bedroom and surf Facebook with Bravo on the TV.
QUESTION FOR THE GROUP -- is this just me going through my angry phase? Any other feedback is great.
QUESTION FOR WET -- What is a 'trial' divorce and how did that work out for you?
