I completely missed your post wounded - I think that is the way to approach it so he doesn't feel 'beat' up
Train- I am going to do something for myself. When H first wanted to R. I kept my GAL in full swing. Even having him at the house to watch the boys while I went out to undisclosed places and events. I'm getting back to my diet seeing as I've gained some of the weight I lost back. Thanks for helping me, xoxo
Sandi - he is willing to go to MC. We at least he was. We haven't discussed it in a few weeks but my guess is he is. I think you are very right that he bypassed the uncomfortable part to just be back in our lives. He still has a lot of work to do on himself. I have done a lot while he was gone but he was not doing anything to work on himself.
I don't think he would tell me that specifically. The most I would get is a generalized answer of 'I'm stressed''
We had touched on the pursuing at MC back in October. The C told me I shouldn't be surprised for H to settle down on the pursuing once he wins the prize but that he needs to find the right balance. He also felt H should be doing most of the pursuing, date night planning, Etc for awhile to prove himself to me. I work this coming week and the MC is off on Fridays so unless he can squeeze me in on a work day and I can have someone cover it will have to wait until the following week.
