Ok guys I'm confused. When I talked to my DB coach she told me to treat my WAW as a friend and for right now not to talk about the OM or about the future at all. What I've read here is to be more distant, to Detach and GAL. Over the last few days stuff with the OM has ramped up. Along with lots of talk about moving out splitting our stuff etc. How exactly do I proceed here? I'm being more distant and that feels odd, but I also understand it's kinda supposed to.
I also don't know if it is being counter productive. Am I not going to just push her out the door? She was griping to me about where she was going to live and how she lost the apt she was looking at. Do I converse with her like a friend would or do I listen but not really offer an opinion either way. Also to add a layer her being a good listener and supportive has been one of the areas where I have gone wrong in my marriage
M:34 W:34 D:8 D:5 M:10 T:15 BD: 10/10/14 D filed: 10/21/14 PA/EA:09/2013 EA:09/2014 - on going (online)
