Happy, I'm sorry, I was thinking of rH when I mentioned your h moving out.
Give him some time. The more you try to explain, the more he's going to pull away.
It's true, relationships do hit some stumbling blocks along the way and the "partners" have to work a little bit harder to find ways to keep the communication open and work on the issues together.
Again, I'm sorry he saw the book. Give him the time and space to digest the info. Leave him be for a while. Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
