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I did tell s14 I was being honest with him and that marriages sometimes most times hits times/phases where it needs extra work to stay on track. S14 said he did not want to talk about it, that H and I marriage is our business and not his and that he would not care if we did get a D he only cares that we are both happy,,,he told me if I wanted to talk about it to call my mom and talk to her....

Just update, my H never moved out...it was threaten early on, and I offered/suggested several times, but my H has been in our home the entire time,,,since BD

I told him that he knows I love to read and I wanted to see what ideas this book had to offer...

But S14 got stopped playing xbox after seeing the book and got into bed,,,I ask why he stopped playing he said he just needed a break,,,now s14 seems a little tense,,,

I told I wanted to make sure our M is in a good place...

I keep talking I was sooo dang ole nervous, then I felt like a jerk to have not thought about keeping the book hidden.

I wish s14 had never seen this book.

Last edited by 2BHappy; 01/02/15 10:49 PM.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW