Oh Ahoy....I SO needed to "hear" that from someone else. I am kind of at that place myself...or at least trying to be since finding out XH has a new gf already (and probably has for awhile). I think YOU were one of the first ones who told me it sounded like an OW and I'll be darned if you weren't dead on accurate. I'm moving on and he might find happiness, but I know MY happiness will only depend on me, while he will have to depend on someone else, because he is incapable of making himself happy. I love your spunk and am so glad to see you back. Yay for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids