Thank you all so much for the wisdom and support. I know I sounded harsh this morning... I think to a certain extent I try on some of these attitudes to see how they feel. I do feel relief at the idea of divorce. I have family members who have remarried one another years later, so it doesn't scare me as much as the idea of two more years of limbo possibly ending in divorce. But I don't believe he has ever been truly committed to me and I don't see that changing. So I'd like to have at least a chance at the life I have imagined for myself.
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Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15