Happy, Give him some time to digest what he saw today. I'm sorry your son saw the book, but I would let him know that you purchased the book after his father had moved out and read it then to see what you could do to help save your marriage and to help you to have a better understanding of what was happening. I would tell him that the only reason it was out now is that you were re-reading parts of it to see if you and your h were still on track and if there were any other suggestions that you may have forgotten since purchasing the book a year or so ago.
Don't try to explain yourself any further until you sense he's ready to talk about it. Okay? If he does tell his father, be honest with him as well. Honesty is the best policy and I'm sure your h would understand since it was purchased long ago.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
