Welcome.

If you could provide some more background information.

How long you have been married, kids, what led up to this, etc.

I'm glad you have read DB.

If you haven't read Sandi2's rules.

Sandi2's Rules

M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy