Part of the problem my own WAH is having comes from his resentment on things that he felt that he had to do to "be a good husband." Things he felt defined him as a good husband, were things that I never asked him for, nor wanted.
He has alot of anger and resentment about it.
On the same hand, I can say the same on my end. Expectations vs. reality is a dangerous dance.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15