Hi, I am new to the forums but have done a lot of reading before my first post. I have read DB and DR is on the way and on Sunday 12/28, I threw my ambivalent wife out of the house for 3 days to actively work on her ambivalence. While away, she did a lot of writing and shared with me her thoughts and feelings. She is really conflicted about how she feels about me and herself following an EA. All of her writing would have had me betting my life savings that she was going to walk out. However, she has decided to work on things but favors a controlled seperation. That being said, she exchanged text messages with a known go between who has been the topic of a couple of arguments. She has agreed to stop talking to her and let me know when she reaches out. She exchanged several messages with her yesteday and has said nothing to me.
What do I do? I don't want the confrontation over the texts to send her back into ambivalence or worse.
