Sounds like you are fed up. So am I, so is everyone here. You want answers, so do all of us. You have been doing this for a long time and have been extremely patient. No one is faulting you for any of that. You could go on a feeding frenzy, bloody the water, then you will have to look for your next meal. Your internal due date is coming up fast. Only you can control that.
Look at it this way, he could be pressing to file papers like my WAW is, she even didn't have the descency to hold her tongue the last time I saw her. In some ways that might be a relief, but in a lot of ways it wouldn't be. Limbo sucks, no question, but better than he pressing for it and still being confused. At least he is confused enough he hasn't filed? Maybe needs more info for his no to turn to a yes?
