Is it possible that W (or STBXW now?) is trying to set me up?
That would be despicable - but I guess not outside the realm of possibility......
At some point, given that we have children to consider don't we have to have an adult conversation about this situation. Or is she just content to let things meander along?
I don't want to have to be the one driving the process - especially since I don't want the D in the first place.
Very angry right now that W has forced/initiated this situation but seems in an almost sneaky way.
And yet there is a part of me (that is dwindling) that still feels some compassion for her and believes that inside she must feel horrible about the way she is doing this.......
ugh! I am all over the place right now........
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
