Pattie and Bets - This has been my question to myself ever since who knows when.
Do you really take H?
Because darn it, I guess we can't ever really change them. We can ask, but if they don't pull through, we can either accept them and their crap, or just walk away. I can deal with my H as he is, or walk away.
It SUCKS, and it's not fair, and I wish I had some prettier way to say it, but I am really feeling convinced of this particular thing right now, especially since my H spent a good part of the weekend just really pissing me off (excuse my language if anyone's offended.) My H hasn't even a clue - he isn't in touch with his feelings, and doesn't have the tools for change ( the BIGGIE? SELF-AWARENESS). He just can't do what I want him to right now. He can't, and no amount of pleading or screaming will budge that. He is H, for better or for worse.
Sorry for thinking out loud again, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
