Great advice there from Calibri TLEE...food for thought.

I certainly wouldn't go there with the...I worked so hard & did it all for you etc..

My H has said some of this, but it was often his choice to take on challenging schedules etc. I would prefer that he hadn't, and spent more time at home.

Also, be careful with the 'I know what you should do' - I'm sure your W can sort herself out without the advice.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus