Mozza was an apt handle then but not any longer, instead I prefer the handle Mozzarella that my predictive text gives me. A delicious tasty treat that has an Italian dash to it, to the buzzy ready to sting mozza.
We love our Mza and his refreshing forthright views, clearly his W needs to see those changes and that will take time. Having an A of any kind is completely wayward in my book and Mza is doing great on the boundary issues.
Vanilla
Haha. Ya I noticed the mozzarella thing on my phone.
And yes his stuff is very well written and goes deep, super helpful. If I was gay I'd ask him out lol because yes, he went through a good change. And that's our goals. All of us here have good hearts I'd think, and by growing through WAWs we have the chance to become even better and wiser. I'm still afraid tho to become bitter. That's a danger. The way to true acceptance seems endless and we have to keep it up for the rest of our lives, not only through the S or D process. That scares me.
I'm also very certain that the WAWs will at one point in their life realize they they made a mistake, especially when we tried to DB with all our hearts. Question is only WHEN will they see. For some it'll be way too late, maybe many many years later. We can only hope our W's will realize before it's completely over. And we have to be soooooo patient, it's not even funny. We can't lose our pride either, we have to live our lives, we can't dedicate ourselves to rescue a single soul for the rest of our lives
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15