Posting to try and get some emotions and thoughts under control.....
Just called the courts directly and found out the first appearance is scheduled for 01/07/15. Still nothing from W and has not given me the paperwork that was served to house while I was out of town.....
Really????? After 20+ years I don't deserve better than this? Crazy making.
Ugh!!!! Stupid expectations sneaking in under the radar again I guess.
Want so bad to confront her but given how I am feeling right now I don't think that would accomplish anything positive. Is it possible that she really has her head in the sand about this?
Why do I feel like I have to drive/initiate this if W is the one who wants it so badly. Seems very unfair! Aren't we eventually going to need to have a grown up conversation about how W proposes things will be in the future???
Part of me wants to just not mention it to her and see what happens - who knows maybe she really has blocked it out and won't even show up......
WTH?!?!?!?
Thoughts/comments/guidance appreciated......
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
