Keep up that PMA for yourself and let the chips fall where they may. Sounds like you are working toward a great 2015 and 2016. I was hoping to be one of those offering advice on reconciling, but right now, that is not even a blip on the radar in my situation, so I am detached and moving on. I so wish you all the luck in the world.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids