Keep up that PMA for yourself and let the chips fall where they may. Sounds like you are working toward a great 2015 and 2016. I was hoping to be one of those offering advice on reconciling, but right now, that is not even a blip on the radar in my situation, so I am detached and moving on. I so wish you all the luck in the world.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids