Thanks Sandi. I believe this as well. I do need to let her go - it is the only way. Now it's just the how and when. We both know it's time. She is just waiting for my move and my "demands".

Part of me fears being the bad guy.

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015