Mozza I read through your threads. Some stuff was an eye opener and very sad.
And a lot of similarities to my situation. A classic example of a WAW and also a very good example of immaturity of a spouse that got lost. One that lost her soul. I don't want to sound religious because I'm not but spouses like ours lost the way of truth and faith, they lost their heart and souls and we need to pray for them to get back to the right path.
And we are powerless. They can only find their way back to the right path themselves. It's just so incredibly hard to watch them losing it frown

Vanilla I agree but disagree with you. Mozza seems to be an incredibly sensitive and smart person with a huge heart. And there's actualky only one person that needs to really change, and that's his W. While we have to save ourselves at the same time.

Everyone here deserves more than what they are going through. We are the ones with big hearts, soul, morale and the will to work things out and honor our vows and we see the good things in a marriage.
We are people who are trying to make a difference. And we suffer badly for it but we don't give up on the person we love. Again, I'm not religious at all, but we are doing Jesus' work here frown And most of us aren't even asking for appreciation.
I'm glad I'm here!


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15