A bit of a strange moment of thinking at this second.. I had a bit of interaction with W a couple of days ago when she came to my place to drop off the kids but after reading a couple of other recent threads on here I may have envoked another feeling from her..

Anyway, I have been GAL'ing my rear end off over the holiday season, and although it was with the kids the whole time (no problems there mind you), we made the absolute most of it!!..

I was having a coffee and chat (as if a neighbour visiting) with her and in an out of the blue comment that "I am trying to show I was being the better parent" and "I never really do that so why do you??.."as I had posted a few photos from a few of our activites on FB.. Funny thing is that she has put up WAY more pics of kids recently than I have.. As I said, this was completely out of the blue, so the comment seemed to be a "mini meltdown" per se..

Something about that makes me think it is somewhere in the script, but I can't put a finger on where it fits in..

Keep in mind none of the pics I put up were rubbing anyones face in it, nor did I intend it that way.. I said to her that I was sorry she felt that that was what trying to do, but that was not my intention and left it at that.. I didn't justify the other comment with an answer.. I changed the subject..

Is this what we would call a working path, or something I should change??.. It has obviously got a response from W, but I can't tell whether to take it as good or bad.. This isn't a new thing either.. It is something that we have both done over the years (pics when doing stuff with S's on FB)..


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..