Jim0987 #8 - A bit clearer on the rebuild

[jim0987]

I would like to actually be able to read her mind.......

It could be the anger and annoyance is it working, that at this stage maybe its the affect I want?

I would like to think that being a good dad might make a positive difference but personally I don't think it will because that's no different to the marriage she is leaving. I think if I had been a distant, poor or uninvolved dad then maybe.

What I wasnt, was very emotionally supportive and that I don't know how to do in this situation. How to shoe life would be better