Glad to see you can still find your sense of humor, Card.
I'm so sorry for this news. I know we all know that it is highly plausible that there is an OM/OW in the picture but I'm sure no amount of preparing for that news can numb the pain of actually hearing it. I'm still bracing for the possibility…
There's been some tense discussion here and so I don't want to add to it. This should be a safe place for people to outline their thinking as it evolves, and we are all responsible for keeping it that way. I think it is safe to say that porn is a trigger for a lot of women, and I suspect you might be getting a bit of that here. Hopefully some of the posts give you some insight into that. Even if you don't se it as tit for tat, it seems some people might. You have spoken openly about your work to deal with the porn addiction and I sooooo commend you for it. It will stand you well in your future relationships, no matter who that is with.
Just take it day by day, Card, minute by minute if you have to. Your thoughts and feelings are bound to be all over the place at the moment.
Hugs.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
