To echo maybell's question, did you reveal your W's earlier sexual encounters before tonight? I don't recall reading about it, so with this knowledge it does bring a new light into the perspective.
I find it.....interesting....for a lack of better words (and I'm not being a smart aleck here) the beginning of your R from a sexual standpoint to where you both are now.
Also, you wouldn't like it if your wife masterbated to porn? Could you explain why? I'm just trying to understand more.
This is tough stuff. You do have a right to be angry, and I'm glad that you can see this is where you are tonight.
I'm Sorry if my response upset you, my statement was not to throw it back in your face, but to try and urge you to look at both sides.
And I do still urge you to get an STD screening. Your doctor could do one for you if you don't want to go down to the health department.
I offer virtual hugs and chocolate as an apology. Or beer, I might have some around here somewhere.
Last edited by Calibri; 01/02/1506:05 AM.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
