Card29 IX - New Year, New Card

[Wonka]

Card,

I am sorry about the latest revelation from your W. It will take some time to process this information.

The main reason I don't think I could stay married to her is that she is so so broken. She has SO much work to do on herself before she is ready to build a stable M. She didn't seem willing or capable to do that, and hasn't in a long time. I do love her and want her to be happy, but she has cheated on me, I no longer feel obligated to stand by her, and I don't know if I want to risk the next decade of my life waiting on her to get herself together. I cant fix her.

^^^^ I have a puzzled look on my face. Who made you The Lord High Executioner??

Have you discounted the huge role your porn played in the disconnect your own M?

Have you completely disregarded GoatGal's eloquent explanation as the wife in a porn-filled M and its effects on her?

If I am reading you right, you're so willing to discard W in less than 24-hours of the A discovery, BUT expect your W to stay in a marriage with you where she feels "used" and devalued as a person by you?

I don't understand your thinking at all.

You have some serious perspective adjustment to do here, Card.