We tell our kids that all choices have consequences. It is not any different for adults. Children want to be close to the familiar when they are stressed. They crave stability and security. Your H is not able to offer that at all right now. You are handling this well but it is not your job to fix this either. Hang in there.


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou