THIS is where the MAGIC happens.

[BrightFuture]

Shining, I’m so happy to know that you had a great time with your kids. And I’m so impressed by your progress. I can’t wait for that moment of feeling “done” to come to my life. There is one thing resonated with me. Your H’s vasectomy. My H had that done last year, and for the same reason, to be able to screw with ows without fear of fathering a child. I know that I have some uneasy feelings about that too. Maybe one day I will realize that this one fact is a deal breaker for me too.

And the thing about hurting your kids. I’m in the same boat. H hurt my son too, by abandoning him and having no contact with him. Even though he is an adult, I know it must still hurt.

Shining, I wish you that “freakin’ awesome” year! You deserve it! You are amazing!