Lost,

I'm sorry you are struggling. I don't think the holidays help with challenging situations in life and hopefully 2015 brings you peace.

I think everyone has their own idea of what forgiveness is. I think in order to begin to start the forgiveness process that one has to let go-really let go. It doesn't mean you condone someone's behavior, however ultimately the only person you control is you I think part of forgiveness is recognizing your h made a decision. You may not like or agree with it, however you accept this is his choice.

Try to take the focus off him. As long as it's on him, you will drive yourself batty. Focus on changes and things that make your life rich and rewarding.

Hang in there!

Last edited by Georgiabelle; 01/02/15 12:00 AM.

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