You asked if DB really works. Have you read the book yet? I am curious in how you perceive the whole DBing concept.
Is your WAW aware that you know about OM?
I am almost through DR and I was a little over halfway through DB when it was suggested to me that I read DR instead.
I believe that at its core DBing is about identifying where you as an individual can grow, and how that growth can help to affect positive change in your relationship with your spouse. Based on what I am reading in the book and on the forum, it takes alot of hard work. Its not an easy fix. It takes time, patience, and having hope that it will work. That it works by completely shaking up the typical approach people take when presented with challenges in their relationships.
As for does my WAW know that I know about the OM, yes she does. She has maintained that it is only a friend and that is it. Before the other nigth I did not know for sure if there was anything sexual going on. I think over the last few days I have done a pretty bad job detaching.
M:34 W:34 D:8 D:5 M:10 T:15 BD: 10/10/14 D filed: 10/21/14 PA/EA:09/2013 EA:09/2014 - on going (online)
