Sandi2 means that your W will want to decide everything: the schedule, the finances, your moods, your tone and topics of discussion, etc. If she doesn't impose her choices on all of this, she will at least limit what you can do and say. The solution applied around here is to define boundaries, whereby you decide on certain things about you that you won't accept, knowing that you can't control her behavior.
Reading around this board, the hardest part of the in-house separation seems to be detaching. Every day, every hour, your W will give you material to mind read, she'll surprise and disappoint you. If you want to see a good example of what it feels like, follow the sitch of jim0987.
