Gwen, same here… I also feel like my H becomes a ghost sometimes when there is no contact for some time. I know exactly how it feels. Scary. The man you thought was your best friend and the closest person in your life, is now behaving like you are his worst enemy, or even worse, nobody.

I also with you when you say that you are wired differently. You are a fighter and loyal person. I’m the same way. I call myself stubborn sometimes, and this how my friends and relatives see it as well. I think there is no other way for us through this, but to feel all we feel and hope as long as we can.

Shining, what a great post. You’ve got it, and you are ahead of me. I feel I’m slowly approaching this state of letting go. I’m almost there. I can feel it. I just hope I don’t slide back again.

Gwen, hang in there. ((((hugs)))))

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state