I can't check any bank or card statement because our accounts are separate. I know a friend of mine said he posted Happy New Year on Face book 2 nights ago. I'm thinking he may in OK visiting his mom and brother. Tomorrow is the timeline he gave me to move out. I am not moving out, I can't right now as I've mentioned in my previous messages. I do worry he'll be coming home tomorrow when I'm at work and will try and throw my stuff out onto the sidewalk. I'm going to ask my building manager to keep an eye out and if he sees H do anything like that, to call the police.
Thank you everyone for your concern. I don't think he will physically harm me but I also know when he's upset he can be a bit unstable so anything is possible. I will be watching out for myself, I promise.


H: 43
W: 39
Married: 11 years
Together: 18 years
1st BD: 05/2014 asks for separation
2nd BD: 06/16/2014 asks for divorce
No kids
EA: 2 months, not mutual (she didn't return the feelings) over