Mozza, really? I've tried a couple of times -- it's so gross and dehumanizing! Why would you assume women enjoy it if we aren't getting sex?
I don't want to be a prude, but yeah, it's a kind of cheating. I could tell in bed when my H had spent time with it because the sex was unsatisfying and impersonal. Blech.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15